FORGIVENESS

I REMEMBER A FEW TIMES WHILE GROWING UP WHEN I HAVE BEEN DISOBIEDIENT  AND HAD TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS FROM MY PARENTS OR MY TEACHERS ETC. AND YES TIME AFTER TIME THEY FORGAVE ME AND THAT WAS THE END OF IT, NEVER TO BE HEARD OF OR SPOKEN ABOUT AGAIN.

ONE THING THAT I WILL NEVER FORGET IS THAT THEY ALWAYS SEEM TO HAVE FORGIVEN ME REGARDLESS OF THE WRONG THAT I HAVE DONE TOWARDS THEM.

NOW THAT I HAVE GROWN UP AND FACE DIFFERENT CHALLENGES IN LIFE, ONE MAKES DIFFERENT MISTAKES AND SOME TIMES ASKING FOR FORGIVENESS IS JUST NOT THE SAME.

MANY PEOPLE TODAY WOULD DO WRONG TOWARDS YOU AND NOT EVEN ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND THE QUESTION IS WHY?

EVERYDAY WITHOUT FAIL SOMEONE ON THIS EARTH IS BOUND TO MAKE OR CAUSE A ACCIDENT AND USUALLY ONE PARTY NEEDS TO APOLAGISE TO THE OTHER BUT IT JUST DOES'NT WORK THAT WAY, IS IT MAYBE BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OR ASHAMED TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS?

OR IS IT BECAUSE NO ONE SEEMS TO REALLY ACCEPT THE OTHERS  APOLOGY?

I CAN IMAGINE MYSELF ASKING SOMEONE FOR FORGIVENESS AND THEY SAY YES I FORGIVE YOU BUT YET YOU ABLE TO SEE THAT THEY ARE STILL NOT HAPPY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED, THEY STILL HAVE A KWAAL A.K.A STILL HOLDING THAT CERTAIN INCIDENT AGAINST YOU. IS IT POSSIBLE FOR ONE HUMAN BEING TO FORGIVE AND FORGET OR MAYBE FORGIVE AND NOT HOLD THAT CERTAIN THING AGAINST YOU AND JUST MOVE ON.

MANY TIMES YOU HEAR OF MARRIED OR EVEN DATING COUPLES WHERE THE ONE PARTNER WRONGED THE OTHER IN SOME OR OTHER WAY AND THEY FIGHT AND GET OVER IT, FORGIVING EACH OTHER AND IT ENDS THERE BUT THAN THERE ARE OTHER TIMES WHERE THAT ISSUE ALWAYS SEEMS TO BE BROUGHT UP IN FUTURE ARGUMENTS, SO THAT MAKES ME THINK, DO THEY ACTUALLY FORGIVE? CAUSE ACCORDING TO MY UNDERSTANDING LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONG, SO IF THEY REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER, HOW COME THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO FULLY FORGIVE EACH OTHER.

IF ONE SAYS I FORGIVE YOU THAN IT SHOULD BE MEANT BECAUSE IF YOU DON''T MEAN IT THAN WHY SAY IT, WHY NOT JUST STAY UPSET AND NOT FORGIVE TILL SUCH A TIME WHEN YOU ARE FEELING BETTER AND THINK THAT YOU ARE READY TO FORGIVE.

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

BE BLESSED YOU'LL

YOUR BOY

SURG GUY!!!

THE YOUNG THAT ARE GOING PLACES.

IT IS THE YEAR 2010 AND THE AMOUNT OF YOUTH THAT ARE OUT THERE, THAT HAVE NO JOBS, NO AMBITION OR MOTIVATION TO FURTHER THEIR EDUCATION IS ALARMING.
MANY OF OUR YOUTH TODAY PREFER TO HANG OUT, CHILL OR TAKE IT EASY AS MANY WOULD SAY BUT WHERE IS ALL OF THE CHILLING GETTING YOU, OR SHOULD I RATHER ASK WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO STOP TAKING IT EASY?

I PERSONALLY KNOW OF AN INDIVIDUAL THAT LIVES HIS WHOLE LIFE AROUND A DREAM, A DREAM OF BECOMING A VERY SUCCESSFUL INDIVIDUAL, YES WE ALL DREAM OF BECOMING A SUCCESS BUT DREAMING IT IS NOT ENOUGH, YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO GO OUT THERE AND START THE HUSTLE.
YOU HAVE TO WORK, WORK, WORK IT WONT JUST FALL IN YOUR LAP, YOU CANT JUST DREAM ALL YOUR LIFE BECAUSE THAN THE ONLY SUCCESS YOU WILL RECEIVE IS THAT OF A SUCCESSFUL DREAMER.

TO GET BACK TO MY EXAMPLE, ALL HE EVER DID WAS SPEAK ABOUT HOW ONE DAY HE'LL BE DRIVING THE FLYEST RIDE, LIVING IN THE FLYEST CRIB AND HOW HE'LL HAVE ALL THIS MONEY BUT FROM WHERE AND WHAT WILL HE DO TO ACHIEVE ALL THIS SUCCESS?
HE HAD THIS IDEA OF STARTING UP A I.T. COMPANY CAUSE AT THE TIME I.T COMPANIES WERE MAKING A WHOLE LOT OF MONEY BUT THE BROTHER KNEW NOTHING ABOUT THE I.T INDUSTRY OR EVEN HOW HE WOULD GET INTO THE MARKET.

YES HE HAD A DREAM, HE HAD AN IDEA BUT NO PLAN OF ACTION TO IMPLEMENT IT AND THATS JUST WHERE IT ENDED AT THAT VERY POINT, THE POINT OF IT BEING A IDEA.

AT THIS VERY PRESENT MOMENT THERE ARE A HAND FULL OF YOUTH THAT ARE CONSIDERED THE YOUNG THAT ARE GOING PLACES, DUE THE FACT THAT THEY HAVE DRIVE, AMBITION AND ARE ALWAYS STRIVING TOWARDS SUCCESS IN ALL THAT THEY DO,.
THEY ARE THE PEOPLE THAT KEEP GOING WHEN EVERY ONE ELSE HAS GIVEN UP, THEY ARE THE ONES THAT KEEP PUSHING EVEN THOUGH THEY CANT ANYMORE, THEY PERSEVERE TO THE VERY END AND EVEN WHEN THEY DO FAIL, THEY FIND THE COURAGE AND STRENGTH DEEP WITHIN TO GET BACK UP AND START AGAIN.

THEY BELIEVE THAT YOU NEED TO FAIL TO SUCCEED BUT A TRUE CHAMPION GETS UP REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATIONS AND KEEPS KEEPING ON.

I HOPE THAT ONE DAY SOON YOU DECIDE THAT YOU WANNA BE ONE OF THE YOUNG THAT ARE GOING PLACES, I HOPE THAT YOU WANNA BE EXTRAORDINARY INSTEAD OF JUST ORDINARY.


BE BLESSED YOUR'LL

YOUR BOY
SURG GUY!!!