STOP PASSING THE BUCK.

YESTERDAY, I EXPERIENCED SOMETHING REALLY DISTURBING AND IT GOT ME VERY, VERY UPSET.
A YOUNG BROTHER, EVEN YOUNGER THAN WHAT I AM, I AM 28. HE WAS EXPLAINING TO US WHY HIS LIFE HAS TURNED OUT THE WAY THAT IT DID AND ALSO WHY HE COULD NEVER BE A SUCCESS.
HIS REASON WAS DUE TO APARTHEID, YES YOU READ CORRECTLY DUE TO APARTHEID.
IT HAS BEEN MORE THAN 15 YEARS SINCE APARTHEID ENDED AND PEOPLE STILL BLAME THEIR FAILURES ON APARTHEID AND TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE THE BROTHER NEVER EVEN REALLY EXPERIENCED APARTHEID.

THE QUESTION THAT I HAVE IS WHY DO PEOPLE STILL PASS THE BUCK AND NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR ALL OF THEIR ACTIONS, WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR THEM TO BLAME SOMEONE OR SOMETHING EVERY TIME THINGS GO WRONG.
WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR ADULTS TO START TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS, I MEAN IF THE ADULTS START BEING RESPONSIBLE THAN MAYBE THE YOUNGER GENERATION WILL LEARN FROM THEM AND STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR THEIR FAILURES.
CAN YOU IMAGINE IF BILL GATES HAD TO BLAME SOMEONE ELSE FOR EACH TIME THAT HE HAS FAILED, DO YOU THINK HE WOULD BE WHERE HE IS TODAY?
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ALSO FAIL BUT DON'T BLAME ANYONE ELSE FOR THEIR FAILURES INSTEAD THEY LEARN FROM THEIR MISTAKES AND TRY TO IMPROVE ON THEIR FAULTS THE SECOND TIME ROUND AND EVEN IF THEY STILL FAIL THEY KEEP TRYING UNTIL THEY SUCCEED AND HAVE A NEVER SAY DIE ATTITUDE.
JUST A WORD OF ADVICE IF YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE STOP PASSING THE BUCK AND BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE FOR YOUR FAILURES.

STOP BLAMING APARTHEID,LOL!!!

YOUR BOY
SURG GUY!!!